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> Sent: Monday, June 18, 2001 2:17 PM
> Subject: Class Suvey Question
> > Dear ------------,
> > These are some of my class survey questions, would please answer these
> > questions and explain a little, since you are almost an expert on the Internet Chart
> > or talk and so on. Thanks, I do appeciate your help.
> > 1. How can Internet dating affect Listening and Conversation(normally)?
> > 2. How can comforting occur through Internet dating?
> > 3.Would you trust an Internet based relation? Why?
> > 4. Couples learn to understand and grow in love many times by effecting
> > solving their conflicts, how can Internet dating manage conflict?
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Sent: Monday, June 18, 2001 11:38 PM
Subject: Re: Class Suvey Question
> 1. I think internet dating is ok though it lacks of listening and
> conversation. Human-beings do need a place and time to think and communicate
> quietly. Internet communication sometimes give people chance to go directly
> inside of others and touch something which is not exposed normally.
> 2. Yes, it is comforting to some degree. Though the speed of internet
> chating is not as fast as telephone.
> 3. To some degree, I trust. But I still be cautious of some injuries, for
> example, I won't go out alone to a quiet place to meet my friend which I
> know via internet. Actually, now I don't think it's good to mix the two
> worlds together: realistic and internet.
> 4. It is much more difficult to deal with conflicts. It is almost impossible
> to do as well as the realistic world. Since it is nessesary for close
> relationship to hug, to caress, to pet, to speak softly, to touch tenderly.
> The long distance is one reason which makes this difference between internet
> world and realistic world, but the most important factors is, people cannot
> completely trust a man or woman whom they had never met. Too close
> relationship in internet is inevitably fragile.